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Free by nature.

‘Live life like it’s your last day!’, the blog post says cheerfully. And you feel guilty, instead...

Who do you want to be?

I like to feel good about myself. I like to think that I am fair, and honest,...

The space that we are.

We are trapped inside the personal mind. The storyteller. The critic. The meaning maker. The fearmonger. And...

About my real job.

I love my job. It’s not coaching. It’s not writing. It’s not posting videos or being in...

Stop holding yourself back.

‘Yeah, but that’s easier said than done.’ I hear that a lot when it comes to changing...

How to make a name for yourself.

How do you get noticed? How do you get to a place where people want to hire...

How to do nothing.

‘Do nothing.’ It’s an idea that derives from various spiritual and religious philosophies. And it absolutely fucks...

The real power of words.

I love words. They might be a simplified and conceptual way to find our way in the...

The space of miracles.

'The only pain there is, is the pain we experience right now.' This is very obvious to...

Changing your mind.

People always look for certainty and security. We just can’t help it. Or can we? A guy...

The secret power of awareness.

‘Yeah, if only life was so simple!’, people often say to me. I hear it whenever I...

No connection, no problem.

For years I was totally convinced that being a (spiritual) coach was about liking every person in...

What IS the answer?

'If only I knew why I am doing this, everything would be different!' people often tell me....

Everything.

What is there to write about? As yesterday’s troubles fade away, we realize once more that we...

The power of realization.

In the coaching conversations I initially have, there's one question that is universally asked: 'What do I...

Stop being fooled by your mind.

We are so fucked. One of the biggest blind spots we have as human beings (and it...

What it means to be who you are.

It took me 52 years to get comfortable about my path. To start to feel whole, powerful,...

The day I died.

When I was five or six, I died. In a way. It was a scorching hot summer...

Life is short. It's a cliché, and it is also very true. Life is short and you...