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Life is short. It's a cliché, and it is also very true. Life is short and you...

Yes you can.

Okay. Let's say you want to do things differently in 2021. Let's say you want to change,...

“Hoe maak je de juiste keuze bij een dilemma?”

Een tijdje geleden vroeg ik op twitter het volgende: Het is niet dat ik door mijn onderwerpen...

You have a gift.

You have a gift. I don’t know what it is, but it’s there. It might be truly...

Trying to surrender.

One day you decide to surrender. You’re doing okay but you read about it, and it sounds...

The Art of Beginning.

‘Where do you find inspiration?’, people ask. They desperately look at their blank screen, their lump of...

Perfect.

‘Everything is perfect’ we say, cheerfully. ‘Every situation and every feeling and every outcome is totally perfect!’,...

Healing.

I’m not doing anything. I’m not going anywhere. I watch tiny house videos on YouTube. Or cats...

Lucky to have You.

And then all of a sudden you realize: ‘People are lucky to work with me!’ You’ve been...

Scared people.

People are always right. When I started to post on Facebook a year or two ago after...

The Power of Nothing.

You can start with nothing. More accurately: you ALWAYS start with nothing. Did you know that? Every...

Real.

I feel raw. Emotionally. Raw is good. It's real. I feel like a tired old punching bag...

Feeling guilty when people change their habits.

For a very long time, I’ve suffered from what you could call the ‘Shit, I should do...

What I learned about pain in Scotland.

Oh man. I just realized how much I’ve neglected a very important part of my emotional life....

Learning how to write, by not giving a shit about how you write.

‘Can you teach me how to write?’ I’ve been asked that question many times. In my advertising...

Why spiritual quotes suck (until they don’t).

‘You already have everything you need.’ Or ‘You don’t have to find yourself, because it is who...

Being A Real Man.

For a long time I didn’t feel like a real man. I wasn’t really sure what being...

Living effortlessly.

There are many things I don’t like, and that’s fine. I hardly have any problems with my...