Relationships

Wealthy and confused.

It might be a first world problem, but it can still hurt like fuck. The disappointment and...

Healing the impossible.

I used to have months of depression and misery. Now all that is left, sometimes, are days...

Going beyond the mind.

So what if you have seen the light and really want to share that, but people are...

There’s no right choice (so stop beating yourself up about it).

When people ask me ‘How do I make the right choice?’ I almost always reply with ‘When...

Living lightly.

Life is about compromise. At least that’s what they say. But who are they anyway, and why...

Show them.

Don’t give advice to people who didn’t ask for it. Even if your ideas might possibly change...

It’s not you.

Here’s a thing that is REALLY cool to know. Every time I am worried about something, I...

New eyes.

There are billions of worlds on this planet. There is your world, and my world, and there...

Blocked by fantasy.

We are held back by ghosts. Whenever we start imagining new ways, new careers, or even new...

The Offended Ones (and what to do about it).

How do you make sure nobody ever gets offended? You don’t. You can’t. You could try living...

No connection, no problem.

For years I was totally convinced that being a (spiritual) coach was about liking every person in...

Life is short. It's a cliché, and it is also very true. Life is short and you...

The Art of Giving.

To my big surprise, I have become a giver. It took me over 50 years to slip...

I’m sorry.

I’m sorry. Not because I did something wrong, not because I’m ashamed of my actions, but because...

It’s not about knowledge.

We always make the same mistake. There’s this huge and widespread misconception that knowing something will change...

Geen paniek!

Wat? - Een (interactieve) webinar Waarover? - Mentale gezondheid Datum: dinsdag 31 maart 2020 Tijd: 20.00 uur...

The power of settling down.

You can always wait. Ride it out. Let it pass. Watch it come and go, wait for...

The ultimate cure for human suffering.

It’s both fucked up and funny. The 3 Principles or Inside-Out understanding is probably the most powerful...